How often is it that we voice the complaint of us being misunderstood......its become a regular thing......that we often have a problem with most of the world since we believe we are misunderstood and we spend hours trying to explain ourselves and prove ourselves right at times at the cost of proving someone else wrong.Why do we keep defending our actions to people that have already decided that we we are wrong ?
The mind is really the most powerful tool we will ever have and therefore it is also the easiest tool to play with and manipulate. It is easier to believe what we want to hear and when this vital information comes from someone we have a particular weakness for we are not able to work with facts.We simply take it all at face value and our common sense is distorted by our rage at the idea of being "betrayed".So should we now make sure that every loved one in our lives always speaks the truth??That is never going to happen.....at some point we have to decide to teach our brain to distinguish right from wrong. Believing everything you hear is like totally abandoning your own sense of right and wrong and relying on someone else's brain to decide for you.The truth is no third person can be held responsible for creating a misunderstanding between two people .We are all given the ability to reason things out and deep down your heart will always have all the answers waiting for you .
Having a life that's planned out,put together and completely organised is great but make sure that this comes with a mind that is strong,able to withstand the poison that its fed with and most importantly tell your heart to help you make decisions regarding people and situations because the heart is something that reminds your brain that it felt love,gratitude and care at some point and its these feelings that help you avoid an unnecessary misunderstanding.
Coming back to being on the receiving end of being misunderstood.This can either be a really sad situation for you or you could stand to gain a lot from it.Promise yourself to have a mind that is not easily poisoned with the venom of suspicion that eventually causes a rift in relationships that were true to you.Have a heart that recognises who to love because the world will have you loving the people you should hate and hating the people you should love.Never do to someone what was done to you and lastly,offer to people the things you would love offered to you....these things being a chance to explain and of course...."an ear that listens and a heart that understands"
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